I install sprayed on liners and paint hulls for a local aluminum boat builder.I use a self etching primer made by Nason,which is produced by DuPont.It is an excellent product.I've used it for years without a problem.The most important thing with aluminum is cleanliness.If it's not clean nothing will stick to it.
I can't remember the specific part numbers for the primer and reducer,but I can look tomorrow for you if you need them.